How to Move to a New City
A recent article in Relevant Magazine inspired me to write my own rules for moving to a new place. Here's what I came up with... 1. Realize it's OK to miss how things used to be. When you move you leave behind a whole life. This is includes your friends, church, work, home and environment. Moving demands leaving these behind, or at least, at a distance. Thing's aren't going to be how they always were and it's OK to grieve that. Remember how it was in "the good old days," realizing there are plenty of good times to come. Be thankful for what has been and open to what will be. 2. Be outgoing. Explore, taste, do, engage, be made uncomfortable. It's the only way to introduce yourself to a new city. Making new friends requires getting out of your comfort zone. See what the city has to offer. Sometimes the natives don't even know what is unique and beautiful about their own hometown. Show them. 3. Start fresh. Whatever happened before is...